Dr. Gabor Maté points out the same concept about doctors in his book The Myth of Normal. It makes sense. I’ve been in the helping profession for over 3 decades and have been aware of my tendencies you mentioned. Working on those! And I cannot help but see similarities in so many others. I’d bet a huge percentage of us have some level of dysfunction due to our early experiences. I guess it’s good that some turn their idiosyncrasies into good.