‘Expert’ in Homelessness?

‘Doctor’ May Need Further Training!

Photos (by Pat Van Doren) of children experiencing homelessness.
Photos (by Pat Van Doren) of children experiencing homelessness.

Righteousness is a terrible malady. It is highly contagious, too. Unfortunately, it afflicts those in position to help those “down and out,” creating a convenient barrier between “us and them.” As I began reading Dr. Klingberg’s comment about homelessness needing something other than “one size fits all” approach, I was encouraged. Then, not.

Dr. Klingberg, from what I can tell, isn’t a medical doctor. He works at a gospel rescue mission. I’ll admit my prejudice with these programs. Based on plenty of anecdotal accounts from guys at our shelter, and my own observations of the local mission and some around the country over the years, I developed a healthy aversion to forcing God on those with no options. Sure, rescue missions do save lives, and I’m sure they’re happy if they can save souls, but…don’t be so damn righteous!

What the Doctor said at first,

…was spot on. But then…

He dismissed the provision of housing vouchers, as if housing isn’t part of the solution. I read his remarks as “damn freeloaders!” I think what he’s getting at is people need good ol’ time religion. (I could be wrong.)

People need a place to live — not a shelter, though in a pinch it’s good to at least have a safe place to stay — and maybe they need support dealing with trauma. God might work for some, but not for everyone.

The different “poverty” examples he mentions above have human origins that often originate from what happens to people, aka TRAUMA.

Trauma — as my favorite trauma guru, Dr. Gabor Maté puts it, is…

Wound. Pain. Fear. Any of us who’ve experienced those things know how devastating they can be. And when it’s a deep wound, well, it takes its toll. It can impact judgement. It can, and often does, cause physical and mental health problems. Sadly, the physical and mental health treatment needed becomes harder/impossible for people in poverty to access, then they spiral into really bad situations.

Let’s Look Under ‘the Rug’

One (of many) example of how our society doesn’t understand and/or ignores trauma is found in this article about women suffering from postpartum depression, or at worst, psychosis. Worst case, postpartum can be deadly. Ask any mother who’s experienced this agony if help is available, or understanding is common.

Mother and little one at a homeless shelter. Photo Diane Nilan
Mother and little one at a homeless shelter. Photo Diane Nilan

Masterpiece or Malfunction on the Mississippi

I’m on my way to Dubuque, where I’ll engage in a dialogue with those working with families and adults experiencing homelessness. My friend Jeff, who ironically works at a gospel mission, understands the various challenges that homelessness causes. He’s humble and compassionate enough to know that different people will respond differently to offers of help.

I will hopefully be able to shine a light on the need for COMPASSION, CONSISTENCY, COMMUNITY. Appropriate places to stay — on an emergency and permanent basis — with supportive services if needed — are the basis for addressing homelessness.

Flag and mailbox on a frazzled door frame. Photo Diane Nilan
Flag and mailbox on a frazzled door frame. Photo Diane Nilan

One More Question, Doctor…

I’d like to ask Dr. Klingborg to take his emergency room example a step further —

Sadly, what happens in hospitals and government housing programs is similar: too little help, too late, and you’ve got to pay. For those suffering with physical and/or mental distress, or lacking a place to live, such “help” inflicts as much pain as doing without help. For the housing-challenged, eviction, being barred from housing (government and private rentals), and a life of homelessness is the price they pay.

Two systems in drastic need of fixing.

Let’s not blame those who are victims of this dysfunction. And maybe it would be good to not add to their suffering.

Physician, heal thyself!

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Founder/pres. HEAR US Inc., gives voice & visibility to homeless families & youth, ran shelters, advocate, filmmaker, author, 18 yrs. on US backroads. hearus.us

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Diane Nilan

Founder/pres. HEAR US Inc., gives voice & visibility to homeless families & youth, ran shelters, advocate, filmmaker, author, 18 yrs. on US backroads. hearus.us